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  1. Pokemon Go seems to be everywhere at the moment. As I walk the dog in the park I see gangs of childen and adults roaming around and trying to catch Pokemon every time. 

    Some people say that it's a terrible thing, but from what I see there is so much more interaction and exercise going on than there was before.

    Now a Heartwarming story has appeared on social media after a Facebook user posted a story about his Autistic Child and how he has stepped out of his comfort zone and found a real happiness.

    It's a heartwarming read and you can see the post for yourself here:

    Pokemon Go and Autism Facebook Post

    So, if you think that children getting outside and looking for imaginary creatures on their phones is a bad idea...it may be time to see it from that other point of view.

     

    If you can't see the text in the picture here it is in full for you to read.. 

     

    Lenore Koppelman
    13 July at 01:48 · New York, NY, United States · 
     

    Thanks to the suggestion of my fellow-autism-mama friend and fellow body painter, I finally introduced Ralphie to Pokemon Go tonight. She was right. This thing is AMAZING. After he caught his first one at the bakery, he was shrieking with excitement. He ran outside to catch more. A little boy saw him and recognized what he was doing. They immediately had something in common. He asked Ralphie how many he had caught. Ralph didn't really answer him, other than to shriek "POKEMON!!!!" and jump up and down with excitement while flapping his arms. Then the little boy showed him how many HE had caught (over 100!) and Ralph said "WOWWWW!" and they high-fived. I almost cried. Then he saw his second Pokemon, sitting on Jenny Lando's front step. He caught that one and was so excited he shrieked again and began to jump up and down. Then she came out and he chatted with her about it, too! Then she pointed out to him that there was a lot of Pokemon activity at the playground. He begged to go. He NEVER wants to go to the playground at night, because it's out of his usual routine. He is normally SO RIGID about his routine. But tonight he was happy to change things up, and do it! We were in shock! And when we got there, other kids ran up to him to hunt for Pokemon together. He was interacting with other kids. Holy crap!!!! I didn't know if I should laugh, or cry. Then he wanted to go find more, and we walked down 30th ave. Adults were also hunting Pokemon, and these total strangers were giving him advice like "there's one right around this corner, buddy! Go get it!" and he would run off laughing to get it. He would even look up at them and say "THANK YOU!" and run off! WOW!!!!! 
    MY AUTISTIC CHILD IS SOCIALIZING. Talking to people. Smiling at people. Verbalizing. Participating in pragmatic speech. With total strangers. Looking up at them. Sometimes even in the eye. Laughing with them. Sharing something in common. This is AMAZING. <3 <3 <3 
    Thank you, for suggesting this. You were right. And thank youNintendo!!! ASD mama's DREAM!!!!!! <3 <3 <3 I love you! :D‪#‎PokemonGO‬ ‪#‎gottacatchemall‬

  2. I am Not Your Guru says Tony Robbins at the start of this documentary where we follow the participants of his Date With Destiny Event in Florida on their journey of discovery, exploration and positive thinking.

    But having watched it, I wonder how true that is.

    Let's face it the poster has a certain Messianic Quality...

    I Am Not Your Guru Tony Robbins Netflix Documentary Review

    The Netflix Movie Documentary which goes by the name of I Am Not Your Guru was directed by Joe Berlinger who became a friend of Tony himself and attended the event previously. Now he has decided to make a film of the event. It's true to say that this is more of a concert film that a deep look behind the scenes. It's not really a balanced view, but perhaps having an overwhelmingly positive message is something that we all could benefit from for once.

    Having said that we really do get to see the raw emotions that are brought up and let go of in extreme close up. The cameras are able to focus in on the tears in the eyes at each revelation we hear from whoever the next person chosen to speak is. Never mind that they are mostly attractive younger women, I am sure that is just a coincidence. Those tears flow and flow so much that I wonder who has the concession selling the boxes of tissues in the hotel that it takes place. It must be a goldmine.

    Is Tony Robbins for real?

    It's actually hard to watch this without coming away with the feeling that Mr. Robbins really does do what he does to help people. He clearly gets the same kind of buzz from the drug of changing people's lives that one of the participants father's got from the drugs that caused him to treat her so badly as a child. After the intervention we watch we see those tears again, but it really does seem that some changes are being made. As A British Male you may well think that this kind of public display of emotions is something very American, and perhaps it is, but it is hard to deny that it works for the people in the venue as we watch them whipped up in a frenzy of love and emotion.

    Watch Tony Robbins cry his own tears

    At one point we hear a truly tragic story that moves Tony to tears himself. The 26 year old lady opens up about her childhood and how she bears all the responsibility of her family on her shoulders. Her story of abuse within a religious group of herself and her family from the age of six appears to shock him, although I am sure he has heard many stories with the same horrific shock before.  However cynical I may be as a therapist I do think that he really is moved, not simply by her story, but by the fact he knows he can change her life. In fact afterwards he offers her therapy support, to train her in what he does and gives her $50000 towards helping her help others. Just as I was wondering whether he abandons people once the event is over he proves me wrong.

    How much does a Tony Robbins seminar cost to attend?

    If you want to join the 2500 other people at the Date with Destiny six day programme then it will cost you $4995. That sounds like a huge amount of money and it is. I can't help wondering about how everyone can afford this. For those who find they are chosen and work one to one in front of the crowd it may well make a huge change, but if you don't have the courage to speak out then can you benefit just as much? We don't really see that aspect so it is hard to tell. I do wonder how many people attend every year, when they find that being in the presence of Robbins is a drug they want to repeat.

    As the film draws to a close I am left feeling a little unsatisfied. I wanted to know more about what happens behind the scenes and how the seminar works for people who are not up there in front of the crowd. It is clear that Director Joe Berlinger, who was originally dragged along to the same event in 2012 wants to leave us with a good feeling, but it means that the balance of the film swings almost too much to the positive. The director himself admits that he didn't pay when he attended, but I am sure that has no relevance.

    In the end though this film doesn't really claim to be anything other than a concert film and in that sense the way that it drawers you in and creates an atmosphere even on the small TV screen of a Netflix subscriber makes watching it worthwhile.

    More reviews of "Tony Robbins - I am not your Guru" Directed by Joe Berlinger

    Financial Times Tony Robbins Review

    The Guardian Tony Robbins Review

    MetroNews CA Review of Tony Robbins